Keeping the Peace

hello,
Today i wanted to talk about Keeping the peace. That is something hard to do. I am still learning and trying to keep the peace. Sometimes I can talk about things that upsets the hubby. Itis hard cause I dont mean to. Just that I have something on my mind, or on my heart. Just cant help myself. Sometimes it is better for me to forget, or forgive, or both. Letting it go, and not bringing it up. Its not like i am gonna get answers. What do u do when you dont have the answers? Yet you wonder. You wonder what happen? is there something he is not telling me.
But again I need to keep the peace, and just let by gone be gone. It is hard. Forgetting, and yet you dont know the truth. This is where I have to give it to God, this sitation, this problem. I cant handle it, and cant get the answers I am looking for. Or maybe it is nothing. This is where I need to surrender to God, take this problem I cant seem to let go of, help me let go, and keep the peace between my hubby and me. Sometimes letting go is hard. So i am trying to keep the peace, and be quiet, and let go, and give it to God. Plus i have to remember to NOT bring it Up.
But sometimes I cant help myself, haha.. oh well!!
how do u keep the peace? how do u let go? I am gonna pray and talk to God about it, and ask him to help me to keep the peace.. Lord make me a peacemaker.............
be blessed